Daily writing prompt
Do you see yourself as a leader?

One the biggest compliments I ever got was from my old Partner in Crime, JR Madrid.

He said that when stuff hits the fan, I’m the guy you want to be around. He explained it as that I just seem to automatically know what to do.

I really can’t say why JR said that. But I do know this. When stuff happens, there’s something inside me that automatically switches on and I take over.

To me, that’s the difference between being a boss and a leader. Boss is management and making things happen. Leading is taking people into a situation they wouldn’t normally go into, making the calls, and making the impossible happen.

There’s several pieces to being a leader.

  • One is training. One of the best courses I ever went through was the Primary Leadership Development Course in the Army. This is what we call Basic NCO school or Sergeant school. Want to know what it’s about? Yeah, there’s a combat element to it, but what it teaches is taking care of the troops. A lot of people think the mission is the most important thing in the military. It is. But what this course teaches is the troops are your most important asset. Without them, the mission doesn’t happen. Therefore, you take care of them.
  • Even more training. Training builds confidence. An example is my knowledge of First Aid and Emergency Medicine. I’ve gone through so many courses that it’s drummed into me what to do. It’s the difference between saying there’s nothing I can do and preforming a tracheotomy.
  • Experience. There’s only one way of getting this. You do it. You can get experience by running simulations and that works great. But since no two situations are alike, that kind of experience is a starting point. As example here is an incident that occurred when I was a young deputy. I’d seen how the fireman did things and retained it. One day, I was with my parents up on the north edge of our property. We were fixing a fence and this required replacing some barb wire. The wire had been stretched and was being nailed into place when the wire stretcher slipped. Without thinking, my mother reached out and grabbed the wire. The barbs dug into her hand, and she couldn’t open it to let go. Everyone else’s first reaction was to cut the wire (which eventually they had to, But…). But there was a lot of tension still on the wire. Had they cut it, the wire would have ripped her hand in half. That’s where that thing I’ve spoken of stepped up and said, “Here’s what you do.” Since the fence puller was loose, I got it. We straddled her hand and used it to get some of the tension off the wire. With the fence puller holding the tension, we cut the wire without having it rip her hand apart. Directing her to keep her hand above her heart, I took her to the ER and Dr. Thomas fixed her up.
  • Initiative – This is probably the single biggest thing that separates the boss from the leader. The willingness to do what needs to get done, even if it’s the wrong call. My best example would be an incident that happened at Fort Riley. I was working MPI at the time and we were trying to run down a peeping tom. I had two young MPs with me who’d been instructed to wear civilian clothing. They showed up looking like Don Johnson from Miami-Vice. So, we’re driving around when a call comes over the radio. The call was directed towards EMS who shared the channel with us. An ambulance was need at such and such a location, a little girl wasn’t breathing. I looked at the kid that was driving and said, “We’re a block away. let’s go.” Because we responded, we saved her life. Had we waited or not taken the initiative, she would have probably died. Taking the initiative is something that can’t be taught.

To me, that’s what being a leader is about. it’s about a willingness to take charge when the deck is stacked against you.

Everything else is just being bossy. and we all know what boss spelled backwards is.

So, yeah. I’m the guy you keep in a glass case. There’s a hammer next to the case. And there’s a sign that reads “When the crap hits the fan, break glass and release Rich. Then follow him. He’ll know what to do.”

I guess that makes me a leader!


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