I had an uncle.
No big deal there. Most everyone has had at least one uncle, but he was definitely one my favorites.
He always seemed old to me. Of course when you’re a kid, anyone over twenty is old. But I remember he always had a slight limp, and years later he grew a goatee, smoked a pipe, and he taught me how to play chess. I also remember at the ripe old age of 62, he went back to school and got his GED.
I heard he got a small pension from the government, and that he had a been awarded a Purple Heart. I never saw the medal, which I can well understand given the story.
Everyone said he was crazy. That he’d suffered from battle fatigue. It was a term applied to a whole host of people, and could mean anything from he was coward to he just cracked up because of what he’d gone through. He’d spent some time in veterans hospitals and, if memory serves, he had occasional relapses that put him there more than once.
All of that was spoken in hushed terms. Insanity wasn’t something openly talked about, but from where I sit, the man was a long ways from that. Beat up? Yes.
Insane? No Way!
What he suffered from we know today as PTSD. What he related in this story means there may have been some brain damage on top of it. With today’s medicine it might have been better diagnosed, and his treatment better.
At the very least, he’d have received a little more respect.
I recall the only time he spoke about what happened to him.
The Invasion of Sicily (also known as Operation Husky) began on 9 July 1943. The island was secure a month later, and when it was over, Benito Mussolini, dictator of Italy had been toppled from power. Hitler diverted troops earmarked for battle in Russia south to shore up Italy and keep the Americans and British at bay.
But I’m getting ahead of myself. My uncle came ashore with the 3rd Infantry Division.
A look at a map of Sicily shows it to be a hilly place. The defenders used the terrain to their advantage and made American and British troops fight for every square foot of the island. It soon became clear to both the Italian and German commanders that holding the island was out of the question. What they did instead was a very orderly evacuation. This resulted in making their front ever smaller. They did this by using mines, obstacles, and whatever would keep the Allied Forces at arm’s length. The idea was to inflict as much damage on the Allies while keeping their own combat power as intact as possible for the fight for Italy.
That’s not to say they didn’t put up a fight. They put up one heck of fight.
“We were advancing along a road,” my uncle had said. “The Germans had almost every inch of it sighted in with guns, and they’d been shelling us.
“Ahead of us were German positions, and we’d been moving towards them. It was fire, maneuver to a shell crater. Fire again, then move again. We didn’t dare stay in one place too long. It would have been simple for one of their cannons to swing back, and fire again. The shell might come down right on us.
“We were in one shell crater using it as temporary cover and firing from it. We were close enough to the German lines we could see them not far away. While another squad fired, we would stand and rush forward.
“We’d just gotten ready to rush forward, and as the guy next to me got to his feet, one of those German hand grenades came flying through the air and landed in the shell hole.
“Then I’m lying in the hole. I don’t know how long I was there. Sometimes it feels like only a short time. Sometimes it feels like I was there for days. I couldn’t think. I couldn’t make my body work. I just lay there and somehow that was okay. I was looking up at the sky and that was all I could do.
“I became aware something was on me. When I finally managed to raise my head, it hurt. Someone dead was lying on me. His eyes were open, and blood was drying on his nose and mouth. I knew who it was, but at the same time it was like his name was a million miles away and I couldn’t get it.
“It was Okay, I let him lay there.
“I also couldn’t hear, and I was starting to realize why. A grenade. I remembered the grenade. We’d been getting ready to rush forward when it came into the shell hole. It must have exploded.
“That’s when I felt the pain in my legs. I moved them, which was good. It took a few more minutes though for me to realize that fragments from the grenade had got me in the legs.
“I saw some motion and painfully turned towards it. A couple of soldiers scrambled down into the hole where I was lying. One of them looked at me, said something, but I couldn’t hear him.
“They moved the body off me, and I remember they cut my pants and began sprinkling something on them. It must have been sulfa. It burnt, and I remember passing out.”
“When I woke up again, I was in a field hospital someplace. I remember I could hear, but whatever was being said seemed far away from me. I slept again.
“This time when I woke up, words and hearing seemed normal. A doctor told me I’d been hit in the legs and I’d have a limp for the rest of my life because of damage to them.
“That’s when I found out I was the only one to make it out that hole alive. The grenade had landed several feet from the guy who had been on top of me. His body absorbed most of the blast and fragments, saving me.”
You can learn more about traumatic brain injuries in combat by following this link.
NOTE: After releasing this story the first time, I was contacted by Wil Rother, a historian in Sicily. The story was translated and is now part of the history of the Island. You can check it out at https://historiapalermo.it//
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Bless you for spending time with this very special uncle.
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I thought he was a pretty cool guy.
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I’m glad his story is finally being told. No one can imagine what combat is like or what the brain has to absorb during it and too many of these men left us without ever telling their story.
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I think the thing that bothers me the most is he was seen as something odd or to even be feared. I remember being warned he was “crazy”-whatever that meant. Maybe the thing I learned from him was compassion for those around me.
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You learned it well, and are passing on that compelling trait to your family and to your readers.
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Thanks.
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That’s quite a legacy from a “so-called crazy man “!!!!!
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GP, because someone took the time to tell his story. Your awesome website is also making sure these stories aren’t forgotten.
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A really great story. I guess many people our age have an uncle, or grandfather, or other distant relatives with stories like that to tell. Sadly, most are probably not heard, and slowly we are losing these heroes to time.
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I’ve a CD I misfiled that has an interview with an old neighbor of mine. He was in Germany just in time to have the war end. But he said it didn’t end there. For at least a little while there were a few folks who still shot at American soldiers. I need to find it one day and put his story out there.
One of the reasons I started writing down the stories they told me is so they aren’t forgotten. Like it or not, I’m possibly the last link in the chain of their stories and I owe it to them to tell the stories.
That’s also one thing the modern combat vet should be doing. They should be telling their stories. I know in my case, I found telling the stories, even if they are through a fictional character, was healing. I found peace and answer to the pain and trauma I went through.
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I do a lot of that in my books as well.
While I missed the Vietnam War by a couple of years (being too young), I was old enough to have several really close friends who were Vietnam vets. I saw first hand how they reacted to coming home to a less than warm welcome from so many Americans. It hurt.
I use some of their stories (fictionalized, of course) in my books and try to portray them in a light that shows the positive in what they did while serving their country … while exposing the brutality of other side so adored by misinformed miscreants.
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This story has just recently been translated and Posted on https://historiapalermo.it/avevo-uno-zio/. Thanks, Wil!
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My dad, Alejandro Castillo, was also in the 3rd Infantry Division, 15th Regiment Company G. He participated in the invasion of Sicily. He shared with us the brutal combat he experienced on Sicily. After it was all over with, there was only my dad and three other soldiers left in his squad. That is when my dad started to believe that there was no way he was going make it thru the war without either being killed or wounded. He was wounded in Italy, and was in the hospital for almost a year. He lived to be 101 years old. Even at that age, he would still cry thinking of his buddies and the horror of war. One night when he was about 90 years old and I was helping him get to bed he told me, “Son, every night when I lay down I see all the dead bodies of my friends.” My dad drank a lot, it is a miracle of God that he lived so long. We never knew he had PTSD. Thanks to the VA, he was compensated and well taken care of. One can never forget all war experiences, I am sure my dad took some awful memories to his grave. He passed away at Audie L. Murphy VA Hospital in San Antonio, TX. Audie Murphy also was in 3rd Infantry Division.
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Sorry to hear that, Alex. Talking with Wil, my contact in Sicily, movies and pictures don’t begin to show how brutal the fighting was there . The scars of that war are still there, and will probably still be there for hundred if not thousands of years. He said it’s still not unusual for, say in the course of digging a foundation to come up with some left over from the battle for the island.
Like my uncle, your father was a remarkable man. I’ve found it’s useful to remember they didn’t ask for what happened to them.
Thanks for his service.
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